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Someone Gets Me speaks to the gifted visionary who lies inside of you. Hosted by Dianne A. Allen, this podcast was created for those gifted and talented people who lie awake feeling alone inside. You are no longer alone. I created this podcast because we’ve all been there – feeling not understood, feeling not seen, feeling like people don’t care. You will hear from gifted people who have gotten over the chasm and have taken the leap to really create something special.
Episodes
Tuesday Apr 16, 2024
How to be the gift
Tuesday Apr 16, 2024
Tuesday Apr 16, 2024
In this podcast episode, host Dianne discusses the transformative concept of "being the gift" in life. She explores the journey of moving beyond victimhood through radical self-care and the release of inner burdens. Dianne emphasizes the importance of compassion towards oneself and others, and the cultivation of hope and excellence over perfectionism. Drawing from her book "Hope Realized," she offers meditations on honesty, openness, and gratitude. Dianne encourages listeners to embrace their unique gifts, be present, and navigate life's emotional spectrum with grace, ultimately finding purpose and joy.
Conversation Points:
🎁 Embracing and expressing one's unique gift
🔓 Releasing victimhood and taking responsibility for responses and behaviors
💆♀️ Practicing radical self-care at a deep core level
🌱 Importance of healthy habits and consistency for gifted individuals
🛐 Releasing inner burdens and finding a safe space for emotional healing
❤️ Cultivating compassion for oneself and others
🌟 Cultivating hope and living with excellence
🤗 Being compassionate towards oneself and others
🎮 Recognizing agency in designing one's life
😃 Embracing one's gifts with confidence and joy
You have a vision inside to create something bigger than you. What you need is a community and a mentor. Personal mentoring will inspire you to grow, transform, and connect in new ways. The Someone Gets Me Experience could be that perfect solution to bringing your heart's desire into reality. You will grow, transform, and connect. https://msdianneallen.com/someone-gets-me-experience/
For a complimentary “Get to Know You” 30-minute call https://visionsapplied.as.me/schedule.php?appointmentType=4017868
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Tuesday Apr 09, 2024
How to Be a Beneficial Presence
Tuesday Apr 09, 2024
Tuesday Apr 09, 2024
In this episode of the podcast, host Dianne explores the idea of being a beneficial presence, especially for those who are intensely sensitive. She stresses the importance of deep listening, a service-oriented mindset, and setting healthy boundaries. Dianne discusses how these practices can lead to positive and inspiring interactions, urging listeners to consider their own impact on the world and the people around them.
Discussion points:
🌟 Being a beneficial presence in the world
👂 Importance of deeply listening
🤲 Maintaining a service mindset
🛑 Establishing healthy boundaries
💖 Significance for intensely sensitive individuals
🚫 Not stealing joy from others
💡 Understanding rather than simply responding
🔍 Reflecting on behaviors and intentions
✨ Being a positive and inspiring influence
🤝 Authenticity and integrity in interactions
You have a vision inside to create something bigger than you. What you need is a community and a mentor. Personal mentoring will inspire you to grow, transform, and connect in new ways. The Someone Gets Me Experience could be that perfect solution to bringing your heart's desire into reality. You will grow, transform, and connect. https://msdianneallen.com/someone-gets-me-experience/
For a complimentary “Get to Know You” 30-minute call https://visionsapplied.as.me/schedule.php?appointmentType=4017868
Join our Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/someonegetsme
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Email contact: dianne@visionsapplied.com
Dianne’s Mentoring Services: https://msdianneallen.com/
Website: https://visionsapplied.com/
Tuesday Apr 02, 2024
Don't steal from your friends
Tuesday Apr 02, 2024
Tuesday Apr 02, 2024
In this podcast episode, Dianne, the host of "Someone Gets Me," explores the various ways people may inadvertently or deliberately steal from their friends. She covers scenarios such as expecting freebies from entrepreneur friends, social exclusion, idea theft, and actions that diminish joy. Dianne stresses the importance of self-respect, clear communication, and stopping the justification of poor behavior to maintain healthy friendships. She shares personal anecdotes and advises listeners to support friends genuinely, set boundaries, and act with integrity. Dianne concludes by urging listeners to reflect on their actions' impact on their friendships and their alignment with personal goals.
Conversation points:
🔸 Stealing from friends: real-life examples and personal experiences
🔹 Various ways people can steal from friends
🔸 Insights and suggestions on how to avoid stealing from friends
🔹 Importance of being mindful of actions and behaviors in friendships
🔸 Treating others as we would want to be treated
🔹 Supporting and uplifting friends actively
🔸 Being considerate of friends' welfare and demonstrating consideration
🔹 Setting healthy boundaries and stating truth and needs
🔸 Impact of actions on friendships and the need for open communication and respect
🔹 Two important questions to consider before taking any action
You have a vision inside to create something bigger than you. What you need is a community and a mentor. Personal mentoring will inspire you to grow, transform, and connect in new ways. The Someone Gets Me Experience could be that perfect solution to bringing your heart's desire into reality. You will grow, transform, and connect. https://msdianneallen.com/someone-gets-me-experience/
For a complimentary “Get to Know You” 30-minute call https://visionsapplied.as.me/schedule.php?appointmentType=4017868
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Email contact: dianne@visionsapplied.com
Dianne’s Mentoring Services: https://msdianneallen.com/
Website: https://visionsapplied.com/
Tuesday Mar 26, 2024
The Consequence of Deep Dives
Tuesday Mar 26, 2024
Tuesday Mar 26, 2024
In this episode, Dianne delves into the challenges faced by intensely sensitive and twice exceptional people when they engage in deep intellectual pursuits. She shares personal experiences and introduces the concept of the three "P's"—payoff, price, and profit—as a framework to evaluate when to emerge from these deep dives. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and balance, providing listeners with strategies to manage their intellectual explorations without compromising their well-being. Dianne encourages embracing curiosity while being conscious of the potential trade-offs involved.
Key points:
🧠 Insights and strategies for managing intense intellectual pursuits
🌟 Experience of intensely sensitive and twice exceptional individuals
🏆 Three "P's" - payoff, price, and profit
🎯 Importance of awareness, clarity, and alignment
💡 Impact of deep dives on well-being
🛠️ Strategies for managing intense intellectual pursuits
❤️ Appreciating curiosity and deep dives while being mindful of costs and benefits
🧘 Approach deep dives with awareness and alignment
🚫 Ensuring pursuit of knowledge does not come at the expense of well-being
You have a vision inside to create something bigger than you. What you need is a community and a mentor. Personal mentoring will inspire you to grow, transform, and connect in new ways. The Someone Gets Me Experience could be that perfect solution to bringing your heart's desire into reality. You will grow, transform, and connect. https://msdianneallen.com/someone-gets-me-experience/
For a complimentary “Get to Know You” 30-minute call https://visionsapplied.as.me/schedule.php?appointmentType=4017868
Join our Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/someonegetsme
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Email contact: dianne@visionsapplied.com
Dianne’s Mentoring Services: https://msdianneallen.com/
Website: https://visionsapplied.com/
Tuesday Mar 19, 2024
Come Back to What Works- Be Free of Behavioral Addiction
Tuesday Mar 19, 2024
Tuesday Mar 19, 2024
In this episode of the "Someone Gets Me" podcast, host Diane Allen tackles the issue of behavioral addiction, emphasizing its profound effects on personal well-being. She shares a story of a man overly devoted to helping others, neglecting himself in the process. Diane discusses various forms of behavioral addiction, including excessive screen time and compulsive distractions that prevent individuals from engaging with their lives. She offers strategies to combat these patterns, such as taking intentional breaks and reconnecting with nature. Diane stresses the importance of being present, especially during significant interactions, and concludes with advice on combating addiction by slowing down and aligning one's actions with personal values.
🧠 Behavioral addiction and the importance of returning to what works
👤 Impact of behavioral addiction on individuals
🛠️ Strategies to address and overcome behavioral addiction
📱 Manifestations of behavioral addiction (excessive screen time, neglecting well-being)
🚧 Challenges of addressing behavioral addiction
🔄 Recognizing and disrupting the yearning for distractions
🎯 Importance of being fully present in interactions
🐢 Slowing down, paying attention, and staying aligned to combat behavioral addiction
💝 Giving from a place of abundance and self-fulfillment
📈 Practical insights and actionable steps for addressing and overcoming behavioral addiction
You have a vision inside to create something bigger than you. What you need is a community and a mentor. Personal mentoring will inspire you to grow, transform, and connect in new ways. The Someone Gets Me Experience could be that perfect solution to bringing your heart's desire into reality. You will grow, transform, and connect. https://msdianneallen.com/someone-gets-me-experience/
For a complimentary “Get to Know You” 30-minute call https://visionsapplied.as.me/schedule.php?appointmentType=4017868
Join our Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/someonegetsme
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Email contact: dianne@visionsapplied.com
Dianne’s Mentoring Services: https://msdianneallen.com/
Website: https://visionsapplied.com/
Tuesday Mar 12, 2024
How Joy Changes Things
Tuesday Mar 12, 2024
Tuesday Mar 12, 2024
In this podcast episode, Dianne reflects on the transformative power of joy, drawing from personal wisdom gained on a recent trip. Emphasizing the need to let go of unhelpful beliefs and behaviors, Dianne advocates for creating space for joy by jettisoning what doesn't work, omitting hindrances, and aligning with higher principles. Through stories and examples, including relationship dynamics, she illustrates how joy can guide one towards authenticity and vitality. Listeners are encouraged to embrace open-mindedness and release obstacles to allow their inner fire to thrive, leading to a life lived with integrity and purpose.
🌟 Accessing joy and its impact on mindset and belief systems
🛑 Letting go of what doesn't work and omitting things that hinder progress
🔝 Yielding to higher principles and vision
🚀 Jettisoning what doesn't work, including people, relationships, clutter, and belief systems
❌ Omitting things that don't serve, such as excuses for unenlightened behavior
🌱 Yielding to higher principles and vision, seeking integrity, honesty, transparency, and authenticity
🔄 Impact of belief systems on behavior and interactions
🤲 Encouragement to be open-minded, patient, and willing to let go of what no longer serves
😊 Accessing joy by clearing away obstacles and baggage
You have a vision inside to create something bigger than you. What you need is a community and a mentor. Personal mentoring will inspire you to grow, transform, and connect in new ways. The Someone Gets Me Experience could be that perfect solution to bringing your heart's desire into reality. You will grow, transform, and connect. https://msdianneallen.com/someone-gets-me-experience/
For a complimentary “Get to Know You” 30-minute call https://visionsapplied.as.me/schedule.php?appointmentType=4017868
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Dianne’s Mentoring Services: https://msdianneallen.com/
Website: https://visionsapplied.com/
Tuesday Mar 05, 2024
Emotional Intelligence when you have ADHD
Tuesday Mar 05, 2024
Tuesday Mar 05, 2024
In this episode of the "Someone Gets Me" podcast, host Dianne Allen and emotional intelligence expert Carol Gill discuss the complexities of emotional intelligence in gifted and ADHD individuals. They explore the importance of self-awareness, managing emotional intensity, and the challenges of navigating social interactions. The conversation covers the significance of empathy, active listening, and the need for balance between understanding others and maintaining healthy boundaries. They also touch on the lifelong journey of growing emotional intelligence and the role of friendships and connections in personal development.
🧠 **Understanding Ourselves: The Emotional Intelligence Journey**
In a deep dive into the realm of self-awareness, the importance of recognizing and understanding one's emotions is discussed, especially for those with giftedness or ADHD. Dianne and Carol examine the challenges of managing intense feelings and how unique sensitivities can influence interactions with the world.
🌿 **Self-Care and Neurodiversity: Embracing Our Uniqueness**
The conversation also highlights the significance of self-care and the power of stillness. Dianne shares personal strategies for finding tranquility in a bustling environment, and both concur on the necessity of taking time off to rejuvenate.
👂 **Empathy and Active Listening: The Heart of Connection**
A particularly enlightening segment of the discussion focuses on empathy and the art of active listening. The importance of listening to understand rather than merely to reply is stressed, noting how this approach is transformative for forging authentic relationships and enhancing emotional intelligence.
🌱 **Growth and Friendship: The Foundations of Emotional Intelligence**
Dianne and Carol recognize that emotional intelligence is a lifelong pursuit. They reflect on the importance of friendship, commitment, and the influence of interaction in promoting personal growth.
You have a vision inside to create something bigger than you. What you need is a community and a mentor. Personal mentoring will inspire you to grow, transform, and connect in new ways. The Someone Gets Me Experience could be that perfect solution to bringing your heart's desire into reality. You will grow, transform, and connect. https://msdianneallen.com/someone-gets-me-experience/
For a complimentary “Get to Know You” 30-minute call https://visionsapplied.as.me/schedule.php?appointmentType=4017868
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Website: https://visionsapplied.com/
Tuesday Feb 27, 2024
How do you define yourself?
Tuesday Feb 27, 2024
Tuesday Feb 27, 2024
In this episode of the "Someone Gets Me" podcast, Dianne explores the complexities of self-definition. As an intuitive mentor, she prompts listeners to reflect on their own identities beyond surface-level labels. Sharing anecdotes and personal experiences, Dianne challenges the subjective nature of terms like "musician" and "legend," while discussing the influence of external opinions on self-perception. She encourages introspection, journaling, and feedback to aid in self-discovery. Drawing on philosophical ideas, she advises distilling one's essence into two descriptors and emphasizes self-definition as an evolving process.
🌟 The Quest for Self-Definition 🌟 Have you ever paused to consider what truly defines you? Is it your job, your passions, or something more profound? This week, I'm peeling back the layers of what it means to define oneself. I'll share personal stories and the fascinating experiences of individuals I've encountered, like musicians who hesitate to claim their title. It's a conversation that will challenge you to think beyond the surface.
💭 Reflect and Reveal 💭 I'll prompt you with questions and examples that will ignite your curiosity and inspire reflection. How do you see yourself, and how do you want the world to see you? Let's explore the subjective nature of labels and the power they hold.
🎨 Overcoming External Doubts 🎨 I'll get personal and talk about how a single comment from my art teacher once made me question my creativity. It's a testament to the impact of external voices on our self-perception and the importance of reclaiming our narrative.
📚 Philosophy Meets Self-Discovery 📚 Ever heard of Plato's forms? We'll touch on philosophical ideas that encourage us to look beyond roles and titles, urging you to distill your essence into just two descriptor words. What would yours be?
👑 Stand in Your Sovereignty 👑 Remember, defining yourself is a dynamic, ever-evolving process. I'll remind you of the power of standing in your own sovereignty and agency, and how embracing this can lead to a more authentic and joyful life.
🤝 Connect with Kindred Spirits 🤝 And don't forget, our "Someone Gets Me" Facebook group is a vibrant space to meet others on similar paths. It's a place to share, learn, and grow together in authenticity and support.
You have a vision inside to create something bigger than you. What you need is a community and a mentor. Personal mentoring will inspire you to grow, transform, and connect in new ways. The Someone Gets Me Experience could be that perfect solution to bringing your heart's desire into reality. You will grow, transform, and connect. https://msdianneallen.com/someone-gets-me-experience/
For a complimentary “Get to Know You” 30-minute call https://visionsapplied.as.me/schedule.php?appointmentType=4017868
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Website: https://visionsapplied.com/
Tuesday Feb 20, 2024
Love is more than a feeling
Tuesday Feb 20, 2024
Tuesday Feb 20, 2024
In this episode of the "Someone Gets Me" podcast, host Diane Allen explores the complex nature of love, challenging the notion that it's merely a feeling or that it inherently causes pain. She discusses love as a state of being and the importance of recognizing and expressing one's love language. Diane encourages listeners to reflect on their personal experiences with love, to understand it as an energy that can coexist with other emotions, and to communicate love in ways that resonate with their unique relationships.
Key Discussion:
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🌟 Love: Beyond a Feeling Have you ever felt that love is just an emotion that comes and goes? Let's challenge that notion together. In our conversation, we explore how love is an enduring presence, a state of being that transcends fleeting feelings.
💔 Dispelling the Myth: Love and Pain It's a common belief that love is synonymous with pain, but I invite you to join me as we dissect this misconception. We'll uncover how true love uplifts rather than wounds, and how to recognize when it's not love but control or misalignment causing us hurt.
💖 Embracing Love as Your State of Being Imagine living in a constant state of love, where it's not just about the act of loving but about being love itself. We'll talk about how to cultivate this within ourselves, making love an unshakable part of who we are.
🗣️ Speaking Your Unique Love Language Each of us has a special way of expressing and receiving love. In this episode, we delve into the importance of discovering and honoring our individual love languages, and how doing so can transform our relationships.
You have a vision inside to create something bigger than you. What you need is a community and a mentor. Personal mentoring will inspire you to grow, transform, and connect in new ways. The Someone Gets Me Experience could be that perfect solution to bringing your heart's desire into reality. You will grow, transform, and connect. https://msdianneallen.com/someone-gets-me-experience/
For a complimentary “Get to Know You” 30-minute call https://visionsapplied.as.me/schedule.php?appointmentType=4017868
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Dianne’s Mentoring Services: https://msdianneallen.com/
Website: https://visionsapplied.com/
Tuesday Feb 13, 2024
Be like Millie
Tuesday Feb 13, 2024
Tuesday Feb 13, 2024
In this episode, I'm opening up about a truly special person—Millie. Her story isn't just a narrative; it's a masterclass in love, a virtue we all seek to understand and embody. Millie's life is a testament to the power of kindness, generosity, and a profound spiritual connection.
Here's a little sneak peek of what you'll discover when you tune in:
🌟 The Art of Kindness: Learn how simple acts can create ripples of compassion. 🌟 Generosity of Spirit: Find out how giving more than you take can transform lives, including your own. 🌟 Spiritual Connection: Explore the depths of what it means to be connected to something greater than ourselves.
So, are you ready to be moved and motivated by Millie's extraordinary example? Grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let's embark on this journey together. Your heart might just grow a few sizes today!
You have a vision inside to create something bigger than you. What you need is a community and a mentor. Personal mentoring will inspire you to grow, transform, and connect in new ways. The Someone Gets Me Experience could be that perfect solution to bringing your heart's desire into reality. You will grow, transform, and connect. https://msdianneallen.com/someone-gets-me-experience/
For a complimentary “Get to Know You” 30-minute call https://visionsapplied.as.me/schedule.php?appointmentType=4017868
Join our Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/someonegetsme
Follow Dianne’s Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/msdianneallen
Email contact: dianne@visionsapplied.com
Dianne’s Mentoring Services: https://msdianneallen.com/
Website: https://visionsapplied.com/